Thursday, October 25, 2012

Blogging & Greek Life - More Similar Than You May Think

Last night I stumbled on some of my favorite new blogs.
And something hit me.

The blog world is eerily similar to college greek life.

Now, I wasn't in a sorority myself, but many of my biffles were and I was cheated out of being a fraternity's sweetheart one year, so I'm VERY familiar with how everything goes.

I guess you could also compare the blog world to your high school class, but I didn't have the bond with my high school class like a sorority class does.

So here's what I noticed.

You come into the blog world, an itsy, bitsy no one with ZERO followers.
The obvious thing to do is find other girls in the same boat.
These girls aren't "too cool" for you.
They also have no followers.
Maybe you can learn from each other.

And then you start to bond.
Your blogs grow together, side by side.
You share the ups and downs of life, from both the virtual world and your real, everyday one.
You laugh, you cry, you send crazy text messages to each other at 3am.
You email or IM each other just out of encouragement.
You become true friends, and it feels, at times, that they get you better than most people ever have.

I sit here, dumbfounded that I am about to hit 400 followers.
And then I go and see that all of my "blogging sorority sisters" have rapidly grown too.
We helped each other get to where we are, and I'll forever be grateful to them.

But how this post came to be, was by seeing the new little class of "sorority blogging friends".
Our "littles", if you will.
The new girls on the block.
I've worked the past few weeks with some sweet girls who are just starting out.
Just handfuls of followers and positive attitudes.
And they made me smile.

I've seen them start to become bff's with each other.
Swapping Ads.
Tweeting each other and promoting one another.
And I realized it's a cycle.
Those girlfriends you make when you come into this world will stick with you forever.

The girls who came before you, mentor you, love on you, encourage you to keep going.
The girls who started with you will hold your hand, understand where you are, and have your back from here on out.
And the girls who come after you, YOU encourage, YOU mentor, YOU help out....because other girls did that for you.

And so, with that, here's to

The Girls That Came Before


The Girls That Have My Back


The Girls That Are To Come



I love you all & you mean the world to me!

23 comments:

  1. THIS MEANS WE'RE IN THE SAME PLEDGE CLASS! Oh Greek life ;) great post! XO

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  2. This is such a sweet post! I love when more established bloggers help out the little bloggers!

    I'm almost to 100 followers, but feel like I have a long way to go in the blog world. Congrats on being SO close to 400 followers!!

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  3. How true! I was in a sorority and it a lot like that. Except 2/3 of my blog followers and Facebook "likes" are my actual sorority sisters. They like to keep up with my life =)

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  4. Love love LOVE this!! You are so right!!
    Yay us!!

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  5. Aww I would have never thought to compare sororitys to blogging but it's beyond true. For me blogging is a different world and sometimes my real life friends just do not understand but that's why I love my blogging sisters :-) you ladies get me!!

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  6. This couldn't be more right!!!! (I've always wanted to be in a sorority!) haha.

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  7. I want to hug you and your blog! I received an email today from another blog stating they would not swap with me because they wouldn't get anything out of it. It made me appreciate you even more! :) Thank you for being my first swappie and helping a girl out! Whoop!! BTW I wasn't greek either and I always look back and wish I had that bond with some girls so I'm glad I might be filling that void! Muah!

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  8. Love this post!! It is so super true. I'm happy to say I'm your 400th follower! Yippie!!
    Marci...www.lifewithjoys.blogspot.com

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  9. I just want to thank you for always being so cheerful and sweet in your posts. I can tell that you are a great person outside of the "blogging world" and I just want to thank you for being great!

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  10. This post is so perfectly right. I was in a sorority but find this bond even greater, You are so insightful. I cannot even explain to you how honored that my name is on that list. I won't lie, I almost cried! I do look up to you and the bloggers that take the time to even look at my blog. You were my first button swap as well! and that's how I found Kathleen!! Probably my favorite post I've ever read.

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  11. Aw, thanks for the mention Friend! I'm glad we've got each other's backs. :-)

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  12. Bahaha this post cracks me up! I was Miss Sorority girl in college...involved in everything, loved my "littles", vp, president...the whole schabang. But I think that's why I love the blogging world so much, but it is so similar! Thanks for the shout--I'll always have your back girlfriend!

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  13. This is soo nice!!! I was in a sorority and I love this because it is similar! YAY!

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  14. I love this post! I'm just starting out and I'm looking forward to making some really great friends!

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  15. Ohmygosh LOVE THIS. Never was in a sorority but...I guess this is mine now :) I have found so many of the lovely ladies that you posted about through YOU. You do a great job of truly building community and genuinely reaching out to others. THANK YOU! I am honored that my name is on the list!!

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  16. I commented immediately after you tweeted and it didn't save :( but just want to thank you for being such a good friend and blogging BFF. Don't know what I'd do without you! Loveeee you :) xoxo

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  17. this is a sweet post, I love the analogy. And I also love how the internet seems to bring people together you would have otherwise never known, so fun!!

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  18. This is SO true! I started a few years ago before I had kids and now I'm friends with these women who were with me through my pregnancies and now our kids are growing up together. I love that you recognized them in this post too, very sweet.

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  19. I love this! You speak the truth. I'm a new follower and I love the positive and encouraging note your blog has. :) Can't wait for more!

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  20. Found you on the Aloha blog hop - I'm a new follower! Would love a follow back at http://www.toeuropewithkids.com.
    Thanks!

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  21. I love this post! I am a new follower and new to the blogging world . . . I guess that makes me a "little". I tried back in 2010 for a very short time and just recently decided I would try again. This post is an encouragement to me. I am so glad I stumbled upon your site.

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  22. I'm a new follower and am fairly new to the blogging world. I haven't found my sorority sisters yet. But I've never joined a sorority or was in the "in crowd" in school.

    Found you Aloha Friday Blog Hop. Come by 100lb Countdown, Like Me on FB Push 2 a New You or Follow Me on Twitter @100LBC

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