Cara Box
cara (car-rah) noun : beloved friend
So I came up with an idea. I LOVE getting random boxes and treats in the mail - namely, my Birchbox.
Nowadays, everyone uses email and texts to communicate. But remember a day, way back when, when you would actually get cards and presents in the mail?
When I was in elementary school I was paired up with different pen pals around the world. I used to love getting to learn about another child's life and culture - and I REALLY loved getting gifts and awesome things from them and their country.
I have absolutely enjoyed meeting tons of new women since the start of Wifessionals. I especially appreciate the kind emails and words of encouragement that we share with each other on a day to day basis.
So:
Awesome things in the mail + Meeting new women + Encouragement = Cara Box
I'm starting a monthly box swap. I think it's going to be a lot of fun. Each month there will be a different theme. Anything from a season, to a color, to a topic (like fashion or childhood).
You will get paired up two other bloggers, email back and forth to get to know each other, and will crazily stalk their blog...in the most non-creepy way.
Towards the middle of the month you will create a box or package, specifically for the woman you were paired to send to, and ship it off to her. Your other partner will do the same for you.
It's like having a birthday 12 months of the year!
You can participate as much or as little as you choose. Need a pick me up this month? Come and join in! Don't have an extra dollar to spare right now? Come back whenever you want!
Since you are re-paired each month, you can come and go as you please (:
Why you should participate:
Who doesn't like getting surprises in the mail?
You can meet other great women
You can get encouragement (see below)
Get some blog exposure (see below)
Rules
1// Packages have a $15 limit. They need to be at least $15, but if you want to spend more, feel free!
2// Make sure your box goes along with the theme. Get creative! Not everything has to be purchased. Get on Pinterest...find something awesome to make!!
3// Include 5+ items per box. Who wants to open a box with one item? Again, creativity!
4// Include a letter of encouragement. After getting to know the woman you are paired with and finding out about her life through her blog, make the effort to include a note of encouragement. This is not optional. It's great to get items that put a smile on your face, but kind words will last in your heart forever.
5// At the end of the month, create a blog post revealing your box and giving a shout out/link up to your match's blog. It's always nice to meet even more friends through the blogosphere.
6// This exchange is open to US residents. If you are outside of the US, please submit your name and info the same as everyone else. If I get interest from more than one person in your country, that country will be added to the exchange for that month (:
7// You CAN participate even if you don't have a personal blog. You will just be paired with another non-blogger
8// I am in no way personally responsible for anything that occurs after I send you your swap partner. I also cannot be held accountable for lost or damaged packages. Tracking numbers are HIGHLY recommended & inexpensive.
9// If your partner ends up not participating or you feel slighted in some way, please let me know.
10// Have fun!!!!
Important Things To Note
1// YOU MUST CONTACT YOUR PARTNER WITHIN 72 HOURS OF RECEIVING YOUR MATCHES. Immediately following the 72 hour limit, any girl who has not heard from her partner must email me and will be re-matched and the girls who did not respond will be dropped from the month's swap.2// Your box must be shipped by the 20th of the month. If you do not send it on time or do not send a box at all, you will forfeit your right to participate in future Cara Box Swaps. I found it heartbreaking that multiple women received boxes, but didn't end up sending their partners anything.
3// Due to the increase in number of ladies interested in the swap, matches will be posted through a post on Wifessionals. There will be instructions and a link in the post. I will email everyone, notifying them about the post. You will have 72 hours after the post to make an initial contact with your partner(s). Second, each girl will be given a match. The name you are given is who YOU will be sending to. The person you send to will not be the person sending to you. In essence, you will get to know TWO girls every month. This may sound confusing, but it will be explained in detail within the "Matches" post.
It is a positive thing, as you will be able to meet more ladies through the swap and will also increase the number of women you can be paired with, making it less likely that you will get "re-matched" with the same girl again.
4// It has come to my attention that a lot of ladies sign up once, get a box sent to them, never send one out...They never sign up in future months or respond to my emails, so they clearly do not care about the rules of the swap or about hurting their partner's feelings. Because of this, I will now be pairing first time swappers together and "veterans" together. Once you have participated in Cara Box, you will be grouped into the "veteran" pool. This will ensure that girls who are faithful participants, are not constantly getting paired with first timers who have no intention of returning to swap and so they don't follow the rules. I am in no way saying that first timers will have a negative swap, this just makes sure that if you have one bad swap in the beginning, it should never happen again in the future because you will be with girls who ALWAYS participate from there on out (:
I am only doing this to make it more fair for everyone.
Grab A Button!
Look out on the blog for the next month's announcement!
Past Cara Box Themes:
October Cara Box: The Best of Fall
November Cara Box: Childhood
December Cara Box: Holiday Sparkle
January Cara Box: Resolutions
February Cara Box: #ClubSexy
March Cara Box: My Name Is...
April Cara Box: Go Green
Look out on the blog for the next month's announcement!
Past Cara Box Themes:
October Cara Box: The Best of Fall
November Cara Box: Childhood
December Cara Box: Holiday Sparkle
January Cara Box: Resolutions
February Cara Box: #ClubSexy
March Cara Box: My Name Is...
April Cara Box: Go Green

SO AWESOME my name is Cara.
ReplyDeleteI need to participate. How do I join in?
xoxo
Cara
I like! & Would love to join as well! :)
ReplyDeleteALSO - i'm a newlywed army wife (we were married March 30! :) )... my husband deployed a month after we got married... but he's almost home! :)
ReplyDeleteWhat a great idea!
ReplyDeleteIma new follower & would love to take part next time :)
Shauna www.shaunawyrick.com
I'm a new follower and I'm totally signing up!!
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I think this looks like super fun, I really want to do it =)
ReplyDeleteIN LOVE with this idea. I want to join!
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-jesika
I would love to join. I have been thinking about blogging, but haven't been sure where/ how to start. I have not let go of "snail mail" I still send real cards and packages when I get a chance. There is nothing like getting that surprise in the mail and knowing someone is thinking about you.
ReplyDeleteMy fiance is currently stationed in Europe and I am here visiting, but will be heading back to the States the first weekend in Nov. Thank you for taking the time to do this and coming up with such a fun idea. :)
Tammy boston_mom01@yahoo.com
This linked up to a old blog that I attempted a long while back.
DeleteCan't wait for the next one. I just signed up today (forgot about it, oops!). Did I make the next box?
ReplyDeleteGreat idea. I'm a new blogger and I'd love to use this as a way to make new friends! Please put me down for the next one!
ReplyDeletefind me, sarah e, over at asongforthebirds.blogspot.com
Thanks! So excited to participate!
Oh how awesome! I want to join! Can I? Pretty please?
ReplyDeleteTiffany:)
fashionintheforest@gmail.com
lifeofalostmuse.blogspot.com
fashionintheforest.blogspot.com
newest follower here! i would love to sign up for this! can i please too!?
ReplyDeletecallie
www.mysomething-new.blogspot.com
I want to join in! :) What an awesome idea!!!
ReplyDeleteMegan
ordinarilyobsessed.blogspot.com
Kaitlyn...thanks for the comment. I'm such a goof and definitely didn't realize that sign up business was a link. Thanks for following up with me. So excited to be a part!
ReplyDeleteLove your blog. I am still new to the blog world and wondered how I get involved in Monday Mingle and the Cara Box!
ReplyDeleteKarie
carrotcakeandjeans.blogspot.com
I wanna Join too but i am from France... Can I join in??
ReplyDeletehttp://posepros.blogspot.fr/
I would love to join in the next one but I'm from Canada - hopefully there are some other Canadians out there who would be interested in joining??
ReplyDeleteCan't wait to join...What a great idea!
ReplyDeleteOh I would love to participate next month!! Let me know how to get in on it! :) http://www.dominicandkristin.blogspot.com. kasmith03@gmail.com :)
ReplyDeleteI LOVEEE this idea! I wil definitely be participating one month soon!
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I would LOVE to be a part of this amazing effort of yours..:)
Thank you..!
http://posepros.blogspot.fr/
I would love to be involved with the next one! I live in the UK though :( is this a problem?
ReplyDeleteLucy
www.her-name-is-lucy.blogspot.com
her.name.is.lucyblog@gmail.com
Such a fun idea! You rock for thinking of this :) I'm going to have to participate in the future. Also, newest follower here. You have a fab blog!
ReplyDeleteI'd love for you to come link up with us at the Super Sunday Sync blog hop this week! http://nuggetonabudget.blogspot.com
Hiya! What's the Dec theme?
ReplyDeleteI would love to do this!! Yeah fun mail, I couldn't see a thing to sign up other than here. Let me know.
ReplyDeletehttp://www.seetastelove.wordpress.com
I would love to do this too! Such a great idea!
ReplyDeleteI love this idea!!! I would so love to join up as well in the next one!!! I do have an APO address (US zipcode and same amount of postage is that okay?)
ReplyDeletethis is a great idea! how do i sign up??
ReplyDeleteYay! Such an awesome Idea! Just joined in <3
ReplyDeleteThis is such a sweet idea-I love it! I'd love to be apart of it!
ReplyDeleteNew follower and i'm totally in next month! Hope I don't miss it!
ReplyDeleteicecreamtobellyrings@yahoo.com
important - don't link up with bonnie from feeling bloggy - she doesn't send her partner anything.
ReplyDeleteHappy Birthday! :) I just wanted to say that I would love to do either a January/February or early February carabox theme of love for encouragement:).
ReplyDeleteCara Boxes sound like so much fun!! I defiantly have to do this when I get some more free time! Brilliant! I am very much enjoying your blog! I just got mine started at heartinfaith.blogspot.com. I love getting inspiration from blogs like yours. :)
ReplyDeleteI love this idea!! I would love to join the fun with your next Cara Box swap! Is there a special place that I sign-up for the next swap?
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Amanda @ Faith*Love*Strength
amanda.lambrechts@jacks.sdstate.edu
Hi there! I just signed up and became a follower :) Sounds like fun and I am definitely looking forward to it.
ReplyDeleteHappy weekend!
Hugs,
Stephanie
This sounds soo fun!! :) I signed up! And cannot wait! Looking forward to it!!
ReplyDeleteHello, I am coming on over from Forever Newly Wedded & Rays of Purple. Both of these ladies shared their gifts and thoughts about the December Cara Box Exchange and now I am officially signed up. I think this is a wonderful idea and I am excited to be apart of this exchange.
ReplyDeleteNew Follower as well & look forward to learning more about you.
-Cheltee
http://somethingaboutyounme.blogspot.com/
I thought i signed up for this back in October and never heard word.
ReplyDeletePlease fill me in on what i need to do to get involved!
Thank you!
-jesika
I absolutely love this idea!! When does the january box begin?
ReplyDeletexo Shane
I signed up, but have not heard from anyone.
ReplyDeleteI too would be like to sign up for the Jan box if that is still possible.
ReplyDeleteThe official Sign Up post comes out tomorrow!
DeleteKaitlyn (:
Great! I would also love to sign up :)
Deletei'll be signing up tomorrow!
ReplyDeleteThanks Ill make sure to check back then and sign up.
ReplyDeleteGreat idea! I'm not sure if I can really do this month, but I love this and I'll be participating in it another month!
ReplyDeleteI'd LOVE to participate. How do I join? :)
ReplyDeleteSounds fun! How do I join?
ReplyDeleteDiana @ Nanny2Mommy
http://mrsdchastain.blogspot.com
mrsdchastain on Instagram
How do i know if my name made it on the list for feb and when will the information be available?
ReplyDeleteThe information for the month's theme always comes out on the first. I believe I saw your name on the list, but if you want, you can re-submit your info using the link above for sign up or the link in the post on February 1st.
DeleteI love your idea! I'm off to join! I feel like encouragement is always so needed. I also saw that you love Jesus and live in Colorado: so do I! So fun to "meet" bloggers that live nearby. :-) Looking forward to this!
ReplyDeleteDo you need to sign up every month, or once you sign up are you good to go? :) Love Cara Box!
ReplyDeleteYou have to sign up every month (: That way you can come and go as you please.
DeleteThanks! :) I loved it and am coming back this month! :)
DeleteI just signed up for next month. This is such a great idea!
ReplyDelete~Britt
Modern Momma On a Mission
Can't wait! I signed up too :).. Sounds like fun!
ReplyDeleteHi, Just heard about your blog and i obviously missed the month of February but i would absolutely love to participate. Pretty please. This is the sweetest idea.
ReplyDeleteWould love to participate if you have some ladies in Canada. Sounds fun! Thanks. Laura
ReplyDeleteThis is extremely awesome.
ReplyDeleteJust signed up to try this for the first time this month :)
ReplyDeleteJust signed up! VERY excited.
ReplyDeleteI would love to participate as well. How do I sign up?
ReplyDeleteJust a thought for themes if you don't have one chosen for April; I believe Earth Day is in April, so a "green" box with favorite sustainable products could be fun! cleaning remedies, products, recycled items, etc...
ReplyDeleteI love this idea and would love to be involved in the future!!
ReplyDeleteThis is such a fantastic idea! I love the name too, cara is Irish for friend. I signed up for next month but I am in Ireland, I hope more people from Ireland sign up, I'd love to take part!
ReplyDeleteFiona @ www.labelledsm.blogspot.ie
xo
This is such a fantastic idea!! Well done!
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www.bohemianmuses.blogspot.com
I wanna do it!!!
ReplyDeleteThis sounds awesome and I will definitely think of participating later on. What a great idea :)
ReplyDeleteI just signed up & cant wait!!!
ReplyDeleteI just signed up... What a fantastic idea! I'm a new bloglovin' follower that found my way to you from the blog hop - maybe in a roundabout way. Would love it if you'd stop by my blog. Cheers!
ReplyDeleteTeri @ A Beautiful Little Life
http://www.ablittlelife.blogspot.com
Tis is so fun! Absolutely something I'd love to participate in! I'm a new follower btw ;)
ReplyDeleteHave a great rest of your week!
xoxo- Kaara @ In the Kitch with Kaara
id be really interested in this but i live in britain - would any other brits be interested?
ReplyDeleteleanne @ rainbowsandbeauty.com xx
This is such a fun idea!!! I would love to participate!!
ReplyDeleteguppy82@blogspot.com
guthrie.ashleyann@gmail.com
This is so cool! I loved having pen pals as a child...I even met up with my French one when I went overseas!
ReplyDeleteGoing to go follow your blog now, too. :)
www.ameliorerlavie.blogspot.com
This sounds like so much fun! I'd love to participate!
ReplyDeleteKaren
http://karen-creativeexpressions.blogspot.com
I would love to join for April's exchange :) Waiting for an update post about when to sign up
ReplyDeleteThis sounds like so much fun! My favorite thing is getting packages, I am so envious of all the box subscriptions online because it doesn't fit in my budget, and I loved being a penpal as a kid! So cool! It does stink when you have to start being tough on people, doesn't it? Thanks for all the clear rules!!
ReplyDeleteDo you have to be a wife to join? This is a really neat idea!
ReplyDeleteDo I have to re-sign up if I participated this month?
ReplyDeleteyes!
DeleteJust signed up, but I think I missed the cut off for May! :( Looking forward to when I do get to play!!
ReplyDeleteI totally have to do this all the time. I love getting and sending gifties. :) I prolly missed May, but can't wait for the next one.
ReplyDeleteOh, this just makes me happy! I love Giving and who doesn't enjoy getting something in the mail? Looking forward to meeting my 2 partners this month. Happy May Day! ~ Hugs ~ Jo
ReplyDeleteOMG! Just found this!! SOOOO much fun!! Would love to join, not sure if it's too late for May, but if not put me in, if it is pleaseeee put me in for June!! SO MUCH FUN!!! :) P.S. I found you from a fishers wife!
ReplyDeleteI'd like to join in next month....dlw6282@gmail.com or www.onjasoncourt.blogspot.com
ReplyDeleteThis is so much fun. I got my May box today -- my first Cara Box, and I can't wait to do it again!!! :)
ReplyDeleteThis is a wonderful idea. It is always nice to get a special gift as well make another persons day brighter.
ReplyDeleteI love this idea. I just got my first box and I love it. What an amazing way to meet people :)
ReplyDeleteI thought of a theme for July! Sail away with me! It could be a nautical theme!
ReplyDeleteI love your blog because of posts like this! Not a lot of people are reviewing this box ;-(
ReplyDeleteAmazing amazing idea!!
ReplyDeleteI so much love it!
Unfortunately I'm from Bulgaria and I cannot participate :)
Anyway I will read the posts for sure in future :)
Regards,
Dimi
Man, missed the sign up deadline by 2 days! Saved it on my calendar for July though, so excited! I guess I now have a reason to start some sort of blog :-)
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